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Cancer Of The Soul and Its Cure … Ephesians 4:31-23 … May 29, 2016
Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.  Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another , as God in Christ forgave you.  Ephesians 4:31-32 ESV
   
  Cancer.  I looked up on the internet how many different kinds of cancer there are, and one source stated there are over 100 different kinds.   Everyone knows a friend, acquaintance, or family member they love that one day will be diagnosed with this dreaded disease.  Billions have been spent on research for a cure and with some success, we hear reports of “in remission” or “cancer free”.  Cancer reminds us more directly how fragile life can be, and in many cases it cuts short desires of long life.   Sin is the cancer of the soul; and if you total up how many different types of sin cancers there are, I’m sure it would exceed the number of physical cancers.  Sin cancer will rob you of life just as physical cancer, but the difference is that there is a one hundred percent cure for the cancer of sin.  While the healing process is immediate concerning the death attached to sin, we will take spiritual treatments the rest of our life in doses given by the Holy Spirit.
     Today, we will look at the cancer of bitterness that deprives a life of love,  joy, and peace.  Have you ever read on a label “this ingredient has been known to cause cancer”?  What ingredient of thought have you ingested into your mind that causes bitterness to grow?  You desire wrath to fall on someone who has hurt you…You want vengeance!!!  You may be consumed with anger at someone who said they would never leave you but did.  Your mind is overloaded with the noise and clamor of injustice done to you.  You might even say slanderous things about a person or people just to satisfy the bitterness that consumes you because of the pain they caused in your life.  In the worst case scenario,  you would like to cause them malice which is physical or mental harm.   I have read that we all have cancer cells in our body.  I know that without exception we all have the sin cancer in our minds.  So the sin of bitterness can overtake anyone who has been treated cruelly, unjustly, with ingratitude, or fill in the blank for your own life circumstance.  Bitterness can only thrive in your life when you dwell on whatever caused it to begin.  So how do you overcome it?  The treatment for bitterness may not be easy at first but you must remember that it is for yourself that you are seeking healing from this cancer of sin.  A sin cancer that is robbing you of the life that God wants you to have abundantly. 
First, we must make the decision to be kind…. Repay no evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all.  If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceable with all.  Romans 12:17-18 ESV  You cannot control how another person conducts themselves or behaves but you can choose how you conduct yourself.  Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.   Romans 12:21 ESV……  I told you it wasn’t going to be easy, especially when you are fighting bitterness.  The place to start in being kind is to pray for them.  This is what Jesus did when they were crucifying him. Remember his words?  “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” Luke 23:34 ESV 
Second, be tenderhearted….  This is a heart that is teachable.  As a vine grows you can take the tender branches and direct them in the direction you choose them to go.  But when it has grown, the vine becomes thick and harder to train.  So it is with our hearts.  If our heart become hard, it becomes more difficult to go in the direction we know that is right.  The Bible is God’s word, and it directs us in how we should live to bring Him glory.  Sometimes that may even be painful.  As the gardner prunes the vine, so God may prune us to reroute the direction of our life.  Jesus said,” I am the true vine, and my Father is the vinedresser.  Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit.” John 15:1-2 ESV  …. 
Third, forgive one another….  Forgiveness is not something we do because the person deserves it; it is something we do because we have been told to do so by God.   It is more difficult to forgive than it is to hold a grudge.   Yet the grudge robs you of love, joy, and peace because the grudge keeps replaying the offense over and over in your mind.  One reason we are told to forgive is:  it is freeing us to live again.  It is impossible to harbor a grudge and true love, joy and peace in your life at the same time.  He told us to forgive as He has forgiven us. (as God in Christ forgave you)  You might say,  “You don’t know what I’ve been thorough or what a certain person has done to me” and you might be right.  But I also know that God calls us to live differently than the world.  He calls us to live differently so that others might see something different in us that will cause them to hopefully evaluate why.  We do so that they might receive a glimpse of Jesus in the darkness of their life.  In other words we reflect the light/love of Jesus who did for us when we did not deserve it.  For one will scarcely die for a righteous person-though perhaps for a good person one would even dare die- but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.  Romans 5:7-9 ESV
    Do not try to do all the above in your own strength for you will surely fail.  Rather cry out to God for strength and know that as stated in scripture, “I can do all thing through Christ which strengthens me.” Philippians 4:13 ESV  Pray the Holy Spirit will give you a treatment to kill the sin cancer of bitterness, enabling you to experience the abundant life of love , joy, and peace.
Because of His Grace ~ Pastor David 
Prayer Life…Rom. 12:12
Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, and constant in prayer. Romans 12:12 ESV 
     Have you ever had moments when you struggled just to pray?   Yet there are other times you feel like a prayer warrior ready for battle.  Sometimes you may even become discouraged because you have prayed and prayed and prayed, yet nothing seems to happen.  You may even ask, “God, can you hear me?”  Personally, I have felt all the above and many other things /emotions in my prayer life, but the one pattern of prayer that I am sure we should all maintain is the pattern of Romans 12:12.
1. To Rejoice in Hope
     Rejoicing, especially with hope, is always a good place to start.  It does not matter how bad life becomes; there is always something we can rejoice in because of the Lord’s blessing in our life.  I remember years ago a sweet dear saint in the Lord. Her body racked with so much pain  that she could hardly speak yet trying to communicate.  I leaned over and placed my ear close to her whispering breath to hear the words she was trying to say.  In a clear whisper she stated, “God is good all the time.”
Here are some rejoicing starters for you.
    His Salvation ~  Then my soul will rejoice in the LORD, exulting in his salvation.  Psalms 35:9 ESV
    The gift of today ~ This is the day the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.  Psalms 118: 24 ESV
     In God’s word ~ I rejoice at your word like one who finds great spoil.  Psalm 119: 162 ESV  
     
2. Be Patient in Tribulation
     A person does not need to go looking for difficult situations in life, for difficult situations will come to a person if they are endeavoring to live for Christ.  Christ himself warned us difficult times will come but does not want us to be discouraged.      “I have said  these things to you, that in me you might have peace.  In the world you will have tribulation.  But take heart; I have overcome the world.” John 16:33 ESV  Concerning the last days Jesus said this, “Then they will deliver you up to tribulation and put you to death, and you will be hated by all nations for my name’s sake.”   Matthew 24: 10 ESV  May we have a prayer life in difficult times that will causes us to pray like Paul when he said,  “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” 2 Timothy 4:7 ESV
3.  Be constant in Prayer
      
          I believe prayer should be an all day on going conversation with God, but I also believe everyone needs a time when they get alone with God to pray intentionally and specifically.  Jesus himself practices this often.  And after he had dismissed the crowds, he went up on the mountains by himself to pray.  When evening came, he was alone.  Matthew 14: 23 ESV  (Luke 6:12..Mark 1:35…Luke 5:16)  Paul tells us to “pray without ceasing” 1 Thessalonians 5: 17 ESV which I believe is simply an all day conversation a person has with God.  Pray when you are driving, at your desk, pounding nails, in the kitchen or shop, and on and on I  could go with the possibilities of places and times to pray.  The point…..make God the center of your thoughts.
Prayer is absolutely essential in the life of every Christian.  The above only scratches the surface in all the Bible teaches concerning prayer and its importance. We were made to be with God, but sin separated us from this privilege.  God so desired to reconnect with us that He sent His only Son to die.  Because of this perfect sacrifice, anyone who repents of sin and calls upon Him will experience talking with Him as His child.  Yes, it is true anyone can pray but to pray and talk with Him as one of His children goes to a whole different level than just a casual conversation.  So this next week let me encourage you to rejoice everyday , be patient in difficult situations, and constantly be praying / communicating with God who is every Christians heavenly Father.
Because of His Grace ~ Pastor David